Turn-ons
Smart, evolving people have always turned me on. I have always found intelligent conversations exciting and stimulating. The conversations don’t have to be about anything particular, just not the weather.
Evolving people tend to do a lot of work on themselves spiritually and physically and are problem solvers. They are people looking inward to find inner peace and have a positive outlook on life experiences, whether good or bad. Life for them is a learning experience.
I find experiencing “Groundhog’s Day” extremely disturbing. Facing the same unresolved issues daily is very wearing and, quite frankly, a waste of precious time and is a complete turn-off.
A person’s self-confidence and an opening to experience new things are also a turn-on for me. The person has most likely begun to work on themselves. These individuals are excellent communicators, able to express themselves and listen to others without judgment or confrontation. Primitive behaviours like anger and aggression have been expunged from their relationships.
My short-term goal is to find more evolving individuals.
I am at a stage in my life where I, too, seek to become the smarter and evolving individual I seek.
Intimacy and sexuality are an integral part of this evolution. Without open communication, there can be no real intimacy either.
Confrontation and disputes are not great for intimacy, nor is resentment.
I am moving forward.
